Joe DeLamielleure Agrees with Mrs. Johnny U.
I think that Sandra Unitas’ letter was put very eloquently. I agree with her on the fact that Gene Upshaw’s rough upbringing should not excuse his current behavior. I myself am the 9th of 10 kids and there were times when my family struggled as well. In fact, in all of my years of football I haven’t had too many teammates that hadn’t overcome some type of adversity in their lives. The fact that you have to learn to work hard and overcome obstacles in life is probably what made the greatest players great. In most cases football was a big break for people…I know I wouldn’t have been able to attend college and graduate if it wasn’t for playing.
I think that if anything, Upshaw having a rough upbringing should make him more sympathetic and helpful to the former players who are plagued by disability and insufficient pensions. Everyone who has had hard times in life and come out on top has done so because there was someone along the way who did what was right and helped them when they saw the need. In the same way that we paved the path for the current NFL players, there were people in our lives that paved the way for us; whether it was a parent, a teacher, a neighbor, or a coach. Gene Upshaw is our Union leader, the one person who should feel the most responsibility for trying to find relief and dignity for his fellow NFL Alumni and he seems to be more of a road block than anything else. Therefore, I find it ridiculous that anyone should excuse his manner because of his upbringing…if anything it should be more of a catalyst for him to find a solution to the problem.
The fight to improve benefits for former players is just another one of those obstacles in life that we are going to have to work together to overcome. It is not something that we could foresee, not something that should be happening, but nonetheless, we would not be NFL Alumni if we did not know how to persevere in the face of adversity. As Sandra stated in her letter, Johnny never turned his back on his teammates and I feel the same…I will not stop fighting for improvement for as long as it takes.
Sincerely,
Joe DeLamielleure


