by Bruce Laird
Country music often filled the Baltimore Colts’ locker room in the late ‘70s, compliments of my teammates with Southern roots. I was reminded of those days – and in particular, of Willie Nelson’s iconic “You Were Always on My Mind” – when I learned that just yesterday, a member of the NFLPA former players’ board of directors had finally reached out to one of the 320 widows abandoned by the union in CBA negotiations regarding the Legacy Benefit.
For those unfamiliar with the lyrics, here’s a sample:
Maybe I didn’t treat you
Quite as good as I should have
Quite as good as I should have
Little things I should have said and done
I just never took the time
You were always on my mind
I just never took the time
You were always on my mind
If I made you feel second best
Girl I’m so sorry I was blind
You were always on my mind
If the 320 widows excluded from the Legacy Benefit were indeed always on the minds of NFLPA leadership and former players’ board members, why did they remain silent when Fourth & Goal contacted the league and former players’ board members, when Sylvia Mackey contacted the union, when widows pleaded for information and help?
Perhaps NFLPA attorney Jeffrey Kessler provided the answer in a St. Paul, Minn., courtroom yesterday, when he stated that the union had no legal fiduciary duty to the retirees – or, we presume, their widows.
I guess doing the right thing doesn’t matter anymore.
Bruce’s song reference got me thinking of some other popular songs of the ’70s that are applicable here:
The League may be saying “Dream on” (Arrowsmith) and the Union has told us “Go Your Own Way” (Fleetwood Mac); But we must respond: “We are Family!” (Sister Sledge) and “You Ain’t Seen Nothin’ Yet!” (BTO) because “We Won’t Get Fooled Again!” (The Who) and although retired players, their widows and families are facing a “Long and Winding Road” (the Beatles) we “Won’t Stop Till (we) Get Enough!” (Michael Jackson) and we are “Taking Care of Business!” (BTO)